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John Michener's avatar

I left my local Quaker meeting about 50 years ago over their unwillingness to see that racism in the Rhodesia sense was roughly equivalent to inter-tribal discrimination and domination in the more General African context. People are not blank slates and subpopulations are not identical in their characteristics. I look for people to treat one another based upon their individual characteristics and behavior, not upon perceived or believed group properties. And by this measure many of the strident anti-racists fall into the classic racist camp - all the while denouncing their opponents as evil racists.

The 'racist' term has been so broadly overused that to me it has lost its impact.

I am a grumpy old meritocrat - evaluating at the individual basis.

Eivind's avatar

I agreee with this in principle. But at the same time it's also true that some terms shift in de-facto meaning in the dominant culture to the point where they really can't be used in their original meaning even by people who fulfill the literal definition of the term, and believe there's nothing BAD about doing so -- because more or less everyone will judge them as identifying with the NOW dominant usage of the term, as opposed to the original and often literal meaning.

A good example of this is the term "incel" -- in a literal sense it means involuntarily celibate. A neutral term that describes someone as being celibate, i.e. having no sexual partners, and that the celibacy is involuntary. In other words it distinguishes someone who is celibate because of not having found a suitable and willing partner but wanting one, from someone who is celibate by choice.

But despite the fact that this is clearly the literaly meaning of the word, and historically if I'm not mistaken it was first used by a woman to describe herself -- *today* the culturally dominant usage of the word is quite different.

Today it usually means something like "Straight man who is celibate because he's unable to find any women interested in having sex with him, and who responds to this with some mixture of entitlement and misogyny." -- Pretty often the term even gets abused even further to mean something like: "Man who expresses any kind of frustration in any way about any part of dating"

You could say someone who fulfills the literal definition of the term "shouldn't" mind having the term applied to them. But in a world where the term de-facto DOES mean "awful person" and not just "person who isn't having sex", there's pretty good reason for people to reject the label.

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