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Karen King's avatar

I am so grateful to you and what you call your ramblings :) this is a human you inspire.

I am so sorry for the complicated grief you are having to go through. I am a therapist and can really appreciate the complexity of your experience.

I have a strange thought ..have you considered ketamine Assisted Therapy? I have been doing this practice with clients for three years with solid, actual positive results clinically.

Thanks for doing what you do and how you do it. Whatever you choose will make an impact:)

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Trinity654's avatar

You take time for yourself and do whatever helps get you through each day - whether that be studying or more leisurely pursuits. It doesn't matter what it is, as long as it helps you get from moment to moment. And you will get through it and you will be even stronger than you were before. And then maybe please consider getting involved with Labour so maybe I can one day vote for them again!

Just to say, your work was such a help and encouragement to me during 2020 when I felt as though my world was crashing around me. I could not have imagined my country (GB), imperfect as it was, ever embracing racial identity politics. I am half white and half black and I think it hit me extra hard. It was as if forces were trying to divide my family, my friendships, my professional life - EVERYTHING. I used to cry in bed and at random times during the day. Can't explain how sad and colossal it felt, in my personal situation. Anyway - people like you gave me hope and kept me sane - because you had an understanding about what was happening and could articulate it (and even write a book about it!). So, I can't really convey how much it meant at the time (and still does now), but want to say a massive thank you.

And you WILL feel better after time. That is just about a dead cert. Time is the best healer. You'll definitely look back on this time and think, wow, I made it through. Sending a hug.

Amber

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